♀ ♍

No one’s perfect, but you’re not going to give up trying! Your desire to help others with no thought of payback is what makes you such a selfless lover. You need to be recognized as a giving individual in order to feel appreciated. Yet, if your insecurities are running high, you might give and give until you don’t have anything left. News flash -- being a martyr is not going to get rid of your fears of not being good enough for someone else. Look, you probably can’t help but analyze relationships and dissect them down to the last detail. You crave someone who is also willing to put in the work of making the relationship better. But even though you love a fixer-upper, at some point, you need to accept the other person as they are and quit trying to change the drapes. If you can’t, you’ll become their worst critic. Your ideal partner is likely practical, highly skilled, and down to earth. Even though you love a shared calendar, your challenge is to rise above the day-to-day experiences that reduce romantic magic down to a boring routine. You render great service to yourself and your partner by letting the little things go.

♀ Ⅸ

When it comes to your romantic life, it’s all about the journey, not the destination. While this motto will get you far, that doesn’t mean you’ll stay wherever you end up. Hey, love is an adventure! Who has time to settle down? You love meeting people from different cultures or faraway places that expand your perception of the world. You’re probably even attracted to folks who feel exotic to you. When things start to get serious, though, you’re really good at putting distance between your finger and a ring. In order for your relationship to thrive, it must feel exciting and freeing or else you’ll be tempted to move on to the next one. It’d do you good to find a co-pilot who mirrors the wild spirit you possess. But keep in mind, it’s not solely physical travel that tickles your fancy -- journeys of the mind are just as stimulating for you. You feel most at home around people who enjoy a good bit of philosophical debate and spiritual exploration. As a result, you may be attracted to someone who is a mentor, teacher, or guide for you in some way. You can expect those roles to be reversed, though, since you know a thing or two about the world yourself.

☿ ⚹ ♀

No matter how heated a conversation may get, you’re not one for hurtful words or crass insults. The sextile between Mercury and Venus reflects your commitment to loving language. What’s the point in saying the most cutting thing you can think of just to win an argument? Your level head makes you a fantastic mediator or diplomat. But in some situations, you might prioritize tact over needed honesty. Too much tension in a room can wear you down, so be sure to schedule time to relax and get back to your center -- you can’t solve everyone’s problems.

♀ □ ♆

Are you the person at the dinner table who always gives someone else the last slice of pie? You may think your needs must come last if others are to love you. As a result, you’re good at playing the chameleon, changing forms to fit the wants of those around you. These sacrificial tendencies can prevent you from seeing people as they really are. However, lasting partnerships require illusions to be set aside. So, what do you need? Asking this question might feel selfish, but it can actually be quite selfless. You’re here to learn that putting yourself first sometimes is a noble act indeed.

♀ ⚹ ♅

You trendsetter, you! Life is a blank canvas, and you’re not here to color between the lines. You have an innate knowledge that what makes you different is a strength, not a weakness, and this makes others feel very comfortable around you. You understand that partnerships are creative processes that shouldn't be limited by the rules or traditions of the past. You need open-minded people who are willing to explore and invent new possibilities with you. Many people will come in and out of your life like waves in the ocean. And while you’re at ease with this, don’t be so detached that you don’t fight for someone worthwhile to stay.

♀ △ ⚷

You’ve had a few scrapes and bruises in the relationship department, but that’s not going to keep you down. A trine between Chiron and Venus signals you’ve had your fair share of hiccups, but they just make you stronger and more resilient. Your experience gives you an ability to empathize with others and offer them healing by simply understanding where they’re coming from. While you should be careful not to become your partner’s therapist, you’re never more turned on than when you inspire them to grow and see themself in a whole new light.

♀ □ 􏿴

You’re so much more than your good looks, but you may doubt that sometimes. The inner conflict you experience makes sense -- how can you give yourself to a relationship when you don’t even know who you are yet? At some point, though, you might realize that love doesn’t require perfection. You’re a work-in-progress, but who isn’t?! It’s entirely possible that a vital part of your development will come through caring for another person… and allowing yourself to receive their care in return. Give yourself the chance to learn lessons only the romantic realm can offer.

􏿶 ♊

What you need in love is a true meeting of the minds! A shy person will never do. You crave a bond where you can communicate, debate, and match each other’s intellect. This kind of sparring isn’t for everyone -- plenty of people might be intimidated by your mental prowess, not understanding that you’re actually just looking for someone who can get on your level. You love meeting new people, since relationships are avenues for exploration and learning. This makes you fall for the scattered and distracted type, though. Don’t give your heart away to someone who doesn’t think about you first.

♀ 𝐃

It’s smooth sailing for your love life -- okay fine, maybe that’s not true. Things can get rocky now and then, and you’re not exactly immune to getting seasick, but you’re probably not going to get lost at sea or anything! With Venus moving direct, you’ve got a relatively clear view of what you want in relationships. And while there might be some other aspects in your birth chart that muddy the waters, your ship is moving forward, even if you have no idea where you’re headed. Who needs a map or a compass when you’ve got a heart to follow?

☿ ♏

Let’s get to the bottom of this -- oh wait, you already have! You’re on a mission to get to the truth, and if someone is not able to meet you there, you’ll be plagued with jealousy and suspicion. When you want someone, there’s no doubt in your mind about it. You might even obsess over them until they’re yours. But it’s not about the chase, you just want to connect on a soul level. Anything is else a bore. Although you want to know everything and anything about your lover, you prefer to maintain an air of mystery for yourself. You often show your affection through physical intimacy, and have no issue creating enough sexual tension be cut through with a knife. Even a glance and a slight lift of the eyebrow is enough to put someone under your spell.

☽ ♓

Words are woefully inadequate to express the depths of your love. You seek a spiritual connection that dissolves all boundaries. Nothing less than a merging of souls will do. You'll feel most loved by those who also recognize the sweet agony of the human condition and who seek to feel connected to something larger. Someone who gently welcomes all your big feelings and then reminds you of the beauty in them is a keeper. If they can cry with you at the movies, sing you out-of-tune love songs, or lay in the grass and play the cloud game, then you’ll be hopelessly devoted.

☿ ☌ ♅

Your brilliant ideas appear right out of thin air. Some may even perceive you as psychic, since your intuitive antennae are highly attuned. Exciting, influential, and incredibly clever, your nature is truly one-of-a-kind. Your eccentric ways of thinking aren't always easy for others to follow, though. When Mercury is conjunct Uranus, your communication style can be a bit erratic and disruptive. If you’re not on the same page as someone else, it’s probably because you’ve already moved on to the next chapter. Slow down and wait for them to catch up.

Ⅲ ♒

Where did you get all those brilliant ideas? Your mind operates on a different frequency than most, causing certain messages to be lost in translation. Not everyone thinks outside of the box like you do. Most people don’t even know there’s a box to begin with! You play an essential role in sharing new concepts. But when others are not able to keep up, remember that not everyone has the capacity to meet your standards or even shares your vision. We are all fallible humans, after all. Find a partner who thinks differently like you do. If you keep shooting for the stars, maybe you’ll end up hitting the moon.

☿ 𝐃

While there are many other aspects in your chart that can inhibit your ability to express yourself, luckily for you, the planet of communication is moving full speed ahead. Unlike those with Mercury Retrograde, who are prone to trip over their words or might be unable to talk the talk, your thoughts roll off your tongue with greater ease. This doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a confident speaker or that your ideas make any sense for that matter (you’ll have to see what else Mercury is up to in your chart to find that out). But with Mercury moving forward, you’ve got words and you know how to use them.

♂ ♐

When it comes time to fight or flight, you’re already out the door, but that doesn’t mean you won’t stand up for your views and values. There's nothing like a passionate debate to inspire you to take up arms. You believe in a higher calling, which is why your morals and integrity matter so much. Lies and dishonesty offend you on a level that goes way beyond personal offense -- it may feel like an offense against the very order of things. However, others will have their own beliefs about the world, and they aren't necessarily wrong just because they differ from yours. Try not to let your confidence turn into self-righteousness. If the conversation gets too serious, you’ll be running for the hills. Don’t be fooled, you’re a jokester at heart! Your optimism and humor make it hard not to love you. Thus, you’re probably used to getting your way most of the time. That attitude is not going to work so well in romantic relationships. Watch your selfish tendencies, and try to put your lover’s needs before yours once in a while. Your eagerness for excitement can make you somewhat impatient. At the end of the day, you just want to have fun. Sex is how adults play! If someone can joke with you in bed, then you’ll both be rolling on the floor laughing.

♂ Ⅻ

Hiding under the covers isn’t the best solution to your problems. If you struggle asserting yourself in the world, you might be tempted to isolate yourself from others. It’s important to connect with people who honor your need for alone time while also providing you with the safety to come out and play. You would benefit from letting go of any beliefs that you have around being needy. Your desire to connect and be supported by others is natural. Be careful not to fall into old patterns of making yourself a victim. While you may be quick to surrender to fate, don’t forget the power of free will. With your pure heart and forgiving nature, you’re often ready to throw in the towel before you even make it into the ring. Your compassionate spirit makes you incredibly attractive, but sometimes you need to balance empathy with the ability to stand up for yourself. Healthy aggression might sound like an oxymoron to a pacifist like you, but it’s necessary if you’re going to have successful relationships. Being selfless isn’t always the best route. Let your bedroom be the safe container for you to unleash the wild animal inside. You have quite the imagination that is ready to be activated. In fact, the way you live your life is innately creative. Bring your dreams to reality, even if it’s just in the form of role play.

♂ ⚹ ♄

No need to call for backup. You're blessed with energy reserves that you can call on to get the job done. It’s not the type of energy that tends to rush and cut corners just to finish. You have a determination and stick-to-it-iveness that allows you to see things through to completion. Perhaps you’re always the last one to leave the office. Maybe you’re the partner who sticks through the difficult conversation to reach a lasting resolution. Few serious matters can intimidate you. Patience, pragmatism, and loyalty are your biggest allies. People know they can count on you and will reward you with the same devotion in return.

♂ ☌ 􏿴

Entering a party alone and leaving with all eyes on you must be pretty common. Others are naturally attracted to the way that you carry yourself, and for good reason! You’re independent, strong, and know how to take action. You’re probably no stranger to hearing “wow, I could never do that!”. Your biography would most likely be filled with memories that took guts and risk to create. The powerful magnetism you exude is both sexy and intimidating. The one crux here is to avoid getting too caught up in your ego. Being self-assured is one thing, but don’t let the looks go to your head!

Ⅴ ♈

Good luck trying to put sex on the calendar, since the idea of scheduling it is likely a turn-off. Passion is an instinctual impulse that arises within you without any planning or forethought. You prefer an in-the-moment rush that feels intoxicating. You are likely the first and fastest to rush in -- and if the other person beats you to the punch, even better! A little friendly competition really gets you going. Having the freedom to indulge in your spontaneous urges will keep you interested and engaged. Just remember that when your system is flooded with all kinds of feel-good chemicals, you are essentially on drugs even if you've ingested nothing of the sort. Careful not to burn too hot!

Ⅷ ♋

The monster waiting under your bed may just be deeply misunderstood. Don’t let your fears of getting your heart hurt prevent you from opening it. You intuitively sense that creating safety is the first step toward vulnerability. However, not everyone is willing to fight a fire-breathing dragon to get to your tower. One day you’ll have to put your defenses down. Once you do, the level of attentiveness and care you bring to others is disarming. At the end of the day, you just want to be nurtured by the ones you’re intimately involved with. But in order to do so, you need to tend to the parts of you that didn’t feel nurtured by your original caregivers. The only weapon you need to fight your demons is self-love.

♀ △ ☉

Higher levels of confidence enable you to express yourself with more boldness during this transit. Your graceful appearance will make a strong impression in romantic and professional situations. Rewards may be right around the corner -- as long as you're willing to take a few risks and open your heart to different people and unique experiences. Even if things don't go as you planned, looking for creative pleasures along the way can still make your life more joyful in the end.

Peak Date: January 1, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: December 30, 2024 - January 2, 2025

☽ ☌ ☋

Pay attention to where you invest your emotions. It's easy to be drawn to those who need you, but what you offer them may never be enough. Don’t get taken advantage of by someone whose intentions are good, but who winds up taking more than they give.

Peak Date: January 2, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 1, 2025 - January 3, 2025

☽ ☌ Ⅲ

If you’re feeling restless, perhaps you need to socialize more. Your head is probably full of too many ideas. It's time to bounce them off other people! Flirting and verbal banter are fun diversions. Keep things lighthearted for best results.

Peak Date: January 3, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 2, 2025 - January 4, 2025

☽ ☍ ♀

You may connect with someone whose style of relating is very different from your own. There are more colors in your emotional palette than you realize. You are highly sensitive to the responses of others now. Open your heart and overcome the fear of criticism.

Peak Date: January 5, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 4, 2025 - January 6, 2025

☽ ☌ 􏿵

You may want to stick close to home and to those you have known longest. You need to feel warm, cozy, and safe right now, and should seek out the gentle things and people in life. Slow down and take time to attend to your home and garden.

Peak Date: January 5, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 4, 2025 - January 6, 2025

☽ ☌ Ⅴ

Playfulness is key now. Acting like a kid and encouraging others to do the same has a fantastic ripple effect on your life and your heart. It's okay to be a little more dramatic than you normally are. Your spirit of creativity and sense of romance come alive during this cycle!

Peak Date: January 7, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 6, 2025 - January 8, 2025

☽ ☍ ☉ Ⅺ

If you feel like you're not getting enough attention, it may be time to take some risks and expose your creative side to the world. A little drama can be fun, as long as it’s playful and not too self-centered.

Peak Date: January 7, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 6, 2025 - January 8, 2025

☽ △ ♀

Pleasure flows easily now. Enjoy the relationships in your life and take them at face value. The simple things in life bring the most joy. You could discover a gift for giving and a gift for the arts within yourself during this time. Just because something is easy doesn't mean it isn't valuable.

Peak Date: January 9, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 8, 2025 - January 10, 2025

☽ ☍ ☿ Ⅺ

It's important that you have a turn to speak, yet also recognize the rights of others as well. The bigger challenge may be to listen, since everyone will want to talk at the same time right now.

Peak Date: January 9, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 8, 2025 - January 10, 2025

☽ ☌ Ⅵ

Give yourself a routine and stick to it. You do better in the relationship arena when you focus on yourself first. Taking care of menial tasks may require much of your attention during this cycle. Your body can give you clues about how to deal with your feelings and the outside world. Exercise and meditation can bring you a sense of connection to yourself and others.

Peak Date: January 9, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 8, 2025 - January 10, 2025

☉ △ ♀

Relationships run more smoothly than usual now. People give you the benefit of the doubt, and good will is in the air. Being yourself has never seemed easier, and you have every reason to enjoy the good things in life. You will probably feel most comfortable expressing your romantic side. This is a time to play and explore your creativity. Let pure joy guide your actions. The gentle part of your nature is apparent to all, and you can easily let down defenses, so a bit of caution provides a reasonable balance.

Peak Date: January 9, 2025

Influential Transit Duration: January 7, 2025 - January 10, 2025