Cris I knwo that fot you worried read whats going on page 3. It may help lighten your load somewhat. I am sorry for your daughter and what shes going through though. I dont mean to make light out of the situation. This is all going to take some time. She is one tough cookie is the feeling I get and you are not adding to the suffering by your choices. Its only temporary. You dont want to prolong the inevitable. and SHe has you for a mama. lucky lucky girl.

Ah, why on earth aren't we neighbours? Am so sick of having no-one much to talk to face to face about any of this. But yeah, she is one tough cookie, but I guess I worry about that a bit as while I'm a tough girl too, underneath us tough ones suffer alone (you'd know what I mean there). We're the ones who everyone looks at and says "she'll be okay" without even bothering to ask how we really are. At least I have one friend here who bothers to ask that, but it's usually in a setting where I can't talk about any of it!! So, thanks Ms T-Rex Fingas. I know what you mean too: the longer ya tap away the more thoes kesy seme to omve to other stosp on the ykeborad ...