Hi all

After a firm decision has been made to end my marriage of 23 years, I find I am at a stalemate as I have nowhere to go. Have looked at two houses, but both have fizzed. Am asking for any psychic/intuitive insights on what may come up for me and if possible, a timeline, as both of us want to move on with our lives and keep our friendship, plus Christmas is looming! If anyone can see what's coming up for me, please let me know and if possible, can you describe the house for me, if that's not too much to ask? I also want to know if my daughter will be okay with this (even though she says she is) and if hubby will be okay as well. The longer this takes, the more afraid I am of making the move, even though I know it's the right thing to do :) And will I be happy at last?

Cris1962

Although I am unable to offer psychic insight, I will send you good energy and hope that Christmas works out well for you.

I left a relationship of almost 12 years a few years back and as scary as it all was, we sometimes know that we have to step out of our comfort zone to do what is best not only for ourselves but everyone else involved. Stay strong and true to you *hugs*

Blessings
T xx

Talisa, it is funny isn't it, how you know something is the right thing to do, but when time seems to stretch on you almost feel tempted to not bother and stay put. That's what scares me at the moment. Am even having second thoughts about the job I was offered and accepted last week ... ugh ...

Thanks both of you. Will keep hoping ... Hope all is well in your neck of the woods Wenchie :))

I know that I lost all confidence in my abilities to survive on my own as my husband had made me feel worthless. It took me about 2 years to regain the confidence to know that I was doing the right thing not only for myself but for my girls as well. Someone told me that if I am happy, then my girls will be happy.

I questioned staying simply cos it was what I knew and I would also predict the cycle of moods etc that would start fights. But I knew that I would instill into my girls not to stay somewhere that they were not happy. And unless I wanted to be a hypocryte I needed to adhere to the wisdom I would make part of my girls upbringing. To be true to yourself and your own happiness then you need to change whatever you can to make life happy. If that means leaving a marriage/relationship, then that is what you must do. Losing yourself in the cracks isn't a price worth paying.

I heard the other day someone saying "If doing the right thing was easy - we would do the right thing all the time" I guess what I am saying is, that we know the road ahead of us while making those changes won't be easy, we know that they are being done for all the right reasons.

Hope this helps even a little *hugs*

Glad my lessons can help someone else. being afraid is natural given this is all so very new to you, but hang in there and know you are a strong confident woman who will land with both feet on the ground and ready to take on the world!!!!!!! xoxoxox